How to find success in life
Success belongs to everyone who wants to fight for it, all have the right to success (according to what they are targeting or dreaming of). Everyone also has the same potential for success, the thing you need to do to succeed is to do what successful people have done before you. Learn from those who are successful, learn from your failures, never give up, try and work hard are some success steps that can help you.
What Makes us Fail?
If you really want to be successful then you must have a strong understanding of certain concepts that can help and explore your potential and that can make you successful. Most people who fail are often limited by the wrong concept and in return they fail, here are some things that make most people fail or not succeed in life.
- Wrong belief
- Often blame
- Less persistent/ less hard working
- Less flexible
- Lack of planning
- Lack of confidence
- Feeling Lack of resources
- Excessive fear
Now then we will discuss one by one the problems that make you fail as above and turn them into real things that can help you find motivation and raise your potential for success, once again because everyone has the same potential for success and deserves it:
False beliefs are the main factor why we fail in life. Faith that is good and right will build our motivation to be stronger and cause our intention to be successful to grow even more. Often we have errors in beliefs that you have never tried or done. As an example, you want to get a job but you have the wrong belief before you try to apply for a job like “Ah, I’m a high school graduate, while many bachelors are unemployed, especially me” or it could be that you want to approach women but you feel inferior like “Ah, she’s a rich, knowledgeable and beautiful woman, who wants to be with me who just barely fits like this?” Well, it’s not clear that false beliefs will stop your intention before you try to try.
Obviously wrong beliefs will make you not only a failure in your life but will also destroy your life. Always think real to create strong beliefs so that your intentions will also be stronger. As I explained in the top point that everyone has the same opportunity and has the same right to success, the only difference is the spirit. If you have wrong beliefs because of your shortcomings, because you feel difficult or feel unable to explain it will make you fail before you even try.
As a motivation, Richard Branson, a rich man who owns a business empire, namely the Virgin Group, did not even graduate from high school, to be successful, Jan Koum, a billionaire founder of WhatsApp which was acquired by Facebook, a poor son of a Ukrainian widow who moved to the USA to change his fate, learn about computers and its applications only from old computers, rejected by several large companies such as Facebook and in the end Facebook itself acquired WhatsApp from Jan Koum and bought it at a fantastic price. Why they are successful, because they have a strong belief that any shortcomings cannot stop them from succeeding. Read also change bad habits for success.
Often blame external factors for your failure
External Locus of Control is a way of thinking that makes a person assume that everything that happens to him is the result of external factors. For example, you claim that the unemployment rate is high, your education level is low or the difficulty of finding a job is the reason you can’t find a job or it could be another reason why you are performing poorly in the office because your boss is fierce and often scolds you, which is a pattern of locus of power. external controls. So you will blame everything, both conditions, shortcomings, it could also be someone else who is responsible for your failure. Successful people will not blame anyone if they fail, they will not blame instead they are looking for the perfect solution so they can find and fix that failure.
As opposed to external locus of control, you can think otherwise, namely internal locus of control, which is a way of thinking that makes you believe that you are responsible and in control of everything that happens to you. So you will always be able to think and not blame everything for your failure or failure. Think real instead of blaming everything that causes your failure, it’s better to find a solution to fix your failure such as the pattern “Julybe I’m not enthusiastic and haven’t been maximally looking for work so I’m still unemployed” or “The boss really often scolds me because I’m often late to work. office, starting tomorrow I will change it”. Read also face obstacles to success.
Lack of Persistence (easy to give up)
There is no such thing as failure until you quit what you are doing right? Can be called a failure if you stop what you are trying to get results. Failure is success that is delayed, and that success you will get from the accumulation of failures and every failure you try to revise it with better planning for the future. But most people will stop what they are doing or trying when they encounter obstacles or failures. Failing once or twice is enough to make people discouraged, but not for those who are successful… They will keep trying even though they fail many times until they find their success.
You have to be able to think about how gold diggers find gold deep in the ground, successful gold diggers will continue to hoe the ground when a lot of stone, sand or garbage is blocking the hoe, they keep trying so they find gold. Meanwhile, gold diggers who fail will stop their hoe when once their hoe trips on a rock, tries 2 times it gets caught in the garbage and the third time it gets stuck in the pebbles and then they give up and don’t continue what they are doing even though the gold is only an inch below the pebbles. but still the gold diggers did not find the gold because they stopped what they were looking for.
The only people who succeed in life are the ones who are persistent. Those who keep working until the end until they get what they want even if everything is against them and even if they fail time and time again.
Lack of Flexibility
People who fail can also be caused because they are less flexible. Lack of keeping up with technological advances. For example, people will continue to sell black and white TVs because in the past they have successfully sold thousands of black and white TVs, but nowadays who wants to buy black and white TVs? Or for example, you are the owner of a shoe company with thousands of employees, but you never adapt or adopt more sophisticated equipment because you save money by hiring more employees with low salaries, so when you can no longer find employees who want to work in your company (employees prefer work in another company with a higher salary) then you will experience a loss because you lack the resources to manage your shoe company.
For example, you are the owner of a clothing sales outlet to always exist with the struggle you are running, then you have to follow the situation by following new clothing models every month so that you can sell more clothes that are trending, don’t let you sell clothes with the same model. with the reason you have been successful in selling clothes with that model. Always improve products, quality and follow what consumers want.
Lack of Planning
If you have no goals or plans then you will become part of other people’s plans. If you don’t plan on being a team leader in your area of work then someone else on your team will and if you don’t plan on getting a high paying job then someone else who is planning and working for it will take it from you. If you don’t plan you will be swept away by people who have more mature plans than you. They will fill positions, make money and gain fame when you will only be a bystander, planning is an essential item in terms of success.
Lack of confidence
If you do not have high self-confidence, then most likely you will be too shy to realize your brilliant ideas, because a brilliant idea will still be an idea or plan if you don’t make it happen, or you may give up on realizing your wish as soon as someone does. convey that you are unable or incompetent. You may be afraid to take risks and ignore the many opportunities that could make you successful, even if you have all the potential for success just because you feel insecure about your abilities. If you want to increase your chances of becoming a successful person, then you have to build your self-confidence.
Thinking that you have no capital
Don’t fool yourself into thinking that you are short on capital because if you are serious about success you will do it without capital, and thousands and even millions of successful people prove that success doesn’t have to cost a lot of capital. The only capital you need is passion for success. Read also start the struggle from scratch.
The types of fear that can affect your ability to succeed are the fear of failure and the fear of success. Obviously this fear has the dire effect of preventing you from trying and causing you to fail. If you want to deal with success then you stop being afraid of failure or afraid of trying. A person will never be able to ride a bicycle if they are afraid of falling or are afraid to try, someone who is successful can ride a bicycle only those who are not afraid of falling, are not deterred and keep trying again even though they fall many times.
Send regards for success…..