Everyone certainly wants success or success in achieving certain dreams or goals according to the goals they set, even hoping that the achievement of these goals is less than the specified time target. But in reality, many of us give in and leave the goals we dream of even before they are realized or become reality. Why did it happen?
Some of the most common reasons that cause us to fail in realizing our dreams or goals include: lack of self-confidence, not having a good plan to implement in achieving goals, being unrealistic in setting goals such as expecting too much or too soon, fear of failure, placing too much pressure on the target. a lot of pressure on ourselves to achieve goals. Well this time I will share a little about effective strategies that we can adopt to successfully decide and achieve goals.
How to start deciding and achieving our goals?
Believe that you can & you can
Know that everyone including me and you have the right and deserves to be successful, successful and accomplished. Before starting the process of setting goals, you must have the confidence and ability to set them, believe that “I can” and “I can”. You have to believe in yourself that you believe you can do what you set out to do and believe that you have the talent and ability to do it.
Unless you start everything with a pessimistic feeling, your struggle will be thwarted with your lack of confidence even you “already lost the war before you started the war itself” that means you will fail in realizing what you dream of even before you try it first.
Specify in detail what you want
One of the biggest dilemmas people often face in effectively setting goals is not knowing what they want. Lack of a detailed concept and planning of what you want in life makes it difficult for you to continue achieving your goals. One thing that most successful people in the world have in common is that they are intensely focused and goal-oriented. They know what they want and they understand it takes goal setting to achieve it. A good way to start this process is to take the time to write down the goals that mean the most to you and then make a list of what you will need to do to achieve your goals.
To achieve big goals in life you need to know this you can see the ‘big picture’ in your life. Start a journal or workbook and write your own answers to some important questions like these:
- Do I want to be the best, achiever, successful, rich, successful in losing weight or (write down what is your goal) If yes, what steps do you need to achieve that goal (write down in detail what you need, need or perfect step in achieving that goal)
- What do I want to achieve in my career?
- What kind of family life do I want (well-being, prosperity or wealth)?
- What kind of lifestyle do I want now and in the future?
- How do I see myself 5, 10 or 20 years from now or from now?
As a pattern for achieving goals in the short term, you have a goal of completing campus activities well, then you can write: look for book references, online, internet, from other sources you must complete in 3 days, type assignments and make them into papers or presentations and double-check if there are errors in 3 days… So you target 6 days to be able to complete college assignments well.
To set long-term goals, such as: you must complete a college degree on time, have a goal of earning several times your total income today, have a serious relationship and make it happen in the future (marriage) etc.
Carefully plan, organize and prioritize your goals.
If you look at everything you want to achieve all at once, you may find all of those goals to be too difficult and impossible to achieve, so the best thing you can do to achieve your goals is to organize and prioritize your goals, that is. means focusing on accomplishing one specific goal in your life and then after success move on to other goals in your life.
Next, make a plan that you have applied for each item you want to achieve. You know that your health goals need ongoing ones, so establish a daily routine or activity that you can maintain on a regular basis. For career goals, categorize these goals in bits and pieces like a monthly, quarterly or yearly plan. Listing points, or planning actions that are expected to reach a certain point in your career. A goal achievement takes time and process to make it a reality, with careful planning, organizing and prioritizing your goals then you are at the perfect step to decide and realize your dream or goal effectively.
Review, update and revise
Review and update your goals regularly to make sure they are still relevant and follow the process you established to make them work for you. Ensure that all processes run on track and take perfect steps and actions if something goes wrong in the process of achieving goals. If some of your tactics don’t work, learn from them, learn from mistakes, or devise new ones. Likewise, find out the obstacles, barriers and distractions and choose what you need to do to overcome them.
We all know that almost all roads in this world will not always be straight, unimpeded and free of obstacles there will always be setbacks and obstacles, difficulties and twists along the road to achieving our goals, but we don’t have to let them get in the way or hinder us in achieving our goals. achieve a goal or dream. Revise and adjust planning anywhere, anytime, any conditions you need.
Stay focused, consistent and motivated
Staying focused, consistent and motivated is probably one of the most difficult things to do when deciding on a goal. You may get off track at times. However, it’s very important to get back on track as quickly as possible to get your goal setting on track and you’ll make it to your destination.
A great tool to keep you focused is a journal or notes. Regularly check and refer to your journal or notebook as a point of reference and to remind yourself what you want to achieve. Set up a routine or habit that will ensure you stay on track.
Other techniques that help to stay motivated include using affirmations and relevant visualizations. It’s important to ‘see’ yourself achieving your goals before you actually do them. Positive affirmations instill positive thoughts into your subconscious mind, which in turn, encourage you to take perfect actions to achieve your goals.
well after you see and implement the tips and tactics above and do it correctly then you will find yourself in a better change, and the changes are as follows:
- You have a ‘big picture’ direction in your life
- You stay organized and focused
- You have increased self-confidence and a sense of accomplishment
- You will achieve success more efficiently and in less time on target
- Make your day more meaningful and purposeful
Setting goals, achievements in life will certainly be effective and realized, if you carry out what actions you have planned. Because even brilliant inspiration or planning will only remain a plan without you taking action to make it happen. So start and act from now on! Determine the goals that mean the most to you and make plans to achieve them.